Before You Start: 7 Tips about Homeschooling

Before You Start: 7 Tips about Homeschooling
First of all, congratulations! As a parent, you are exploring your child’s educational needs, and that deserves to be celebrated.

 It is easy to feel overwhelmed by the plethora of information available and have trouble deciding where to start. Don't worry! This blog post will guide you through the essentials of homeschooling, breaking it down into easily manageable steps. Let's embark on this exciting journey together.  If you are like me and love a good printable checklist, I've included one for you here.

find out the homeschooling laws for your state

I've seen it time and time again.  Parents get excited about the idea of homeschooling, they jump into Facebook groups and start asking questions, and mostly well-meaning people sometimes give them bad info.  Before you ever start, you need to read the homeschool laws for your specific state.  Those laws can vary widely, with some states having little to no regulation, while others require documentation and regular assessments.  If you are uncertain where to find the laws for your state, HSLDA has a complete list. 

choose your educational philosophy and curricula

Once you understand the legal aspects, it is time to decide what you want your child's education to look like and which materials suit each child's learning style.  Do you prefer a more traditional, structured approach, or a child-centered, flexible methodology?  The beauty of homeschooling is its adaptability to your child's unique needs and interests. So, choose a curriculum that aligns with your educational philosophy and your child's learning style.  Cathy Duffy's Top 101 Picks is a valuable source for this, and a copy can also usually be found at your local library. 

it's okay to ditch a curriculum that isn’t working

.I hear you - I used to have a hard time accepting this, too, especially if it was an expensive one.  Take it from someone who learned the hard way:  it is NOT worth taking away from your child's love of learning, or even worse, damaging your relationship to finish out a curriculum that clearly isn't working.  The ultimate goal is your child's learning and development, and if a particular curriculum isn't facilitating that, it's okay to let it go. Remember, educational needs can change, and adapting to those changes is part of the homeschooling process.

socialization isn’t a problem

In the beginning, you may get this question quite a bit.  Some of those asking will be friends and family, but pre-2020, I found the most curious people to be those in the grocery store who simply could not comprehend why children would be out of school at 10AM on a Tuesday.  Usually, the only folks concerned about socialization are those who have never spent time around a homeschooler. There is a myriad of opportunities for social interaction, and more importantly, these are usually with various age groups, races, economic backgrounds, etc.  You know, in short, more like real life than a 5th grade classroom. 

Here's the reality:  homeschoolers actually have to turn down social opportunities to fit academics in.  Your child can have meaningful interactions with a wide variety of people through service opportunities, church, sports, music, homeschool co-ops, 4H, Scouting, internships, employment, and more. 

Take field trips without crowds

Okay, this one may sound silly, but it's really simply a reminder to embrace the flexibility that comes along with homeschooling.  Explore museums, parks, and historical sites at your own pace, and make the world your classroom.  There are many places that offer homeschool days and discounts while public school is in session.  Don't see a date that meets your needs?  Ask the business or organization!  You'll be amazed how many are willing to work with you.

make memories while making a mess in the kitchen

Homeschooling is a wonderful opportunity for teaching life skills and turning everyday activities into fun learning experiences. These moments of joy and discovery will create lasting memories and foster a love of learning in your child.  Bonus is that if you teach them to cook, they will have taken over dinner duties before you know it, occasionally giving you the evening off.

accept that priorities will change

This can be a tough one, even if you understand it going in.  You see, there will be people you love who don't "get it."  For me, I knew my usually tidy house was going to take a backseat as home became the classroom, the library, the cafeteria, the theatre, and more.  I was okay with that, and some family members were decidedly not.  Another aspect can be financial challenges, especially if one parent is moving from a full time job to staying at home.  As long as you are aware of these changes before you start, they don't have to be a complication.

Finally, remember that there will be tough days. Homeschooling can be challenging, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed at times. But these moments don't mean you have failed. Instead, they're opportunities to learn, grow, and adapt. 
This educational choice is a rewarding journey of discovery, learning, and growth. It's not always easy, but the beauty of it lies in its adaptability and the opportunity to nurture your child's unique potential. So, take the plunge, embrace the challenges, and celebrate the joys of homeschooling!

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3 Reasons to Ditch that Curriculum

3 Reasons to Ditch that Curriculum

Let’s face it, no one is learning if child and/or teacher are miserable. While it can be hard to toss aside plans, here’s your permission slip to do so.

  1. I get it. You invested good money into those books and materials. But what if I told you that you can recoup most, if not all of that cost? There are plenty of places to resell curricula. Social media has options, as well as homeschool conventions. You may be part of a co-op that allows it. Maybe your church will allow you to start a used book sale once or twice a year? Think outside the box. ALSO, remember that children within the same family learn very differently. If you have physical space and financial room, I would encourage you to hang onto that stuff in case a younger sibling falls in love with it.
  2. What if you no longer had to argue with your child to get them to do their work? What if it actually gave you more freedom during the day? Bringing PEACE and JOY to your home. Wouldn’t that encourage your child to pursue other things they are interested in learning? And you would have more time to recharge/have fun/focus on marriage.
  3. You’ll gain confidence, and your child will learn a valuable lesson - their educational and emotional needs come first. And I don’t mean in a “you get whatever you want kind of way.” It’s that you listened to their concerns. At the end of the day, there are times when they are still going to have to do school work they don’t want because you, as the adult, understand the value in it. But by getting rid of a program that is not valuing that particular child, you are instilling something much more important than book learning. And that is a positive character trait they will carry for their entire lives.

Want some more details of how it worked for my family?  I've got you covered.

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